THIS Z TOO MUCH!!! MY HOUSE KEEPER WILL DESTROY MY MARRIAGE!!! TAKE LOOK THIS TEMPTATION MADE ON ME

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Photo: 27 Year Old Man Marries 83 Year Old Grandma In Lagos State

What is going on with this generation? Small boys after older woman and small girls after older men… I am completely stunned when I saw this Photo Online.
At first, I thought it was a burial ceremony not knowing it was actually a Wedding of a 27 Year Old Man and 83 Years Old Woman.

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PLEASE HELP shocking post! Am in Love with my Sister’s Husband, What can I do to make Him divorce Her and marry Me?

Dear friends…

I am a 23 years Old and Have been in a relationship with my sisters husband for 5 years now without my sisters noticing,sometimes we stay together,sometimes i stay away from them,
It started immediately i cleared my high school..i dont know how its happen but i felt in love with him because he was my 1st man,up to now i love him and he too loves me,
Im almost Done my university studies only some months remaining… I have told him to break up because i dont want my sister to know this but he insisted on marrying me!
Im totally confused by now because i need 2 settle after my studies.
What can i do to make them divorce?
Advise me please

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How Many Guys Can Do This?

I know ladies will love this because every lady dreams and fantasize about a guy who will be there for her, cuddle her and do all sorts of things for her. However, I think you'll be taking it too far if you expect your guy to engage in plaiting your hair (as shown in the attached pics). So guys, can you do this for her because of love?

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5 Disadvantages Of Marrying A Man Who Can Cook

#1. critical of your food: burnt food, salty or too spicy, recipe that didn't turn out well? E. T. C. A man that can cook is sure to notice that more than one who can't cook will. you can always sweet talk a husband that can't cook about how strenous it is preparing that particular kind of soup blalbla bla but u sure can't deceive a man that holds the big spoon.

#2. Responsibiltiy neglect: as it is th a our culture dictates th a it's the responsibility of the woman tocookfor the family, u may find yourself 'getting time's frequently and having your husband cook most times.


#3. No dine outs : since you both can cook. If u for some reason are unable to cook at a certaintime, ur husband would most probably choose to fill in rather than taking u out to eat/ bringing home take away food as one who can't cook would ssuggest.

#4. Nothing new under the sun: trying to surprise ur husband with a really 'wow' delicacy prepared by u? Chances are he's tried that recipe before.

#5. Competition: whoever likes it when the kids enjoy daddy's cooking more than mmY, the natural born cook's cooking?

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7 Things Men Notice Instantly About Ladies

There is no secret that usually men are attracted by a lady’s physical appearance. Obviously, each guy has his own sense of taste. But at a first glance they put some extra attention on these 7 things.


1.Your shape. Of course a guy looks at your shape and curves. Probably he will not be trying to hide this fact as well.
2. Your attitude. Men love women who have nice and healthy self-esteem. They keep in mind how the ladies pose. Your confidence is a great plus. As well as the ability to look straight into his eyes.
3. Your smile. All men subconsciously are attracted to some certain types of smiles. It is like a lottery.
4. Your friends. Your surrounding can tell a lot. Of course a guy will be checking out on whom you hang out with. If you are not alone on your first meeting with him.
5. Your hair. Some psychologists say that men notice your hair before noticing what you are wearing. So your hair should look well and smell well.
6. Your makeup. It is better for it to be looking natural. Or simple and light.
7. Your… bag. Yes, probably he will look at your purse. Some researches showed that guys don’t like girls with big bags. So, in this case, bigger is not better.
So, dear ladies, you will never know where you will meet your significant one. So whether you are going to supermarket to buy some food or going out with your best friends: try to look nicely and smile. Your “the one” is waiting for you somewhere near!

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5 Relationship Tips To Learn From The Lagos Driver-conductor Connection

 

If you live in Lagos, then you must have experienced the unique relationship between danfo drivers and their conductors.
I have had to be a part of their relationship in recent times and have had time to think about the subject.

Honestly, they have what every relationship and subsequent marriage should have.

Here is a list of these unique requirements.

1• They both believe their survival is dependent on one another and so must work together to make money.

2• They fight most of the time and have conflicts of interest but it never affects the overall goal.

3• Some drivers switch out conductors for a variety of reasons but d conductors are able to accept it for the way things must be for success.

4• They fight for and defend each other except on the rare occasion where one of the two is really lousy and has been bailed out too often.

5• The driver always knows the road to take, but it’s the conductors place to make sure that all hassles during the journey are taken care of.

The moral of this speech?

Marriages fail because they go in thinking of themselves and their goals, not the joint, big picture.

They feel they have an opportunity to switch out partners without some bumps along the way that eventually hurt.

Oh, what you can achieve as a team is endless.

Love, fight, defend, support, assist, pray, encourage, forgive…. as hard as you possibly can.

Let them be a reminder everyday you step out, because in the end, every driver needs a conductor

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7 Clear Signs You And Your Partner Aren’t Meant To Be Together

                                

People end up broken hearted after envisioning all the things they could have done with their partners simply because they refuse to see these signs – from the obvious to subtle ones

Inspired by All Women Stalk, here are 7 signs you you and your partner are incompatible


1. You don’t trust each other.

2. Your relationship is all about $*x, no deep feelings involved.

3. Your self-esteem is constantly threatened by jealousy.

4. Unhealthy arguments and criticisms between you are your partner.

5. Your life goals don’t align with your partner’s.

6. Keeping secrets from your partner, from the little ones to the really huge ones.

7. Little or no form of communication between you and your partner.

You can add yours too if you've got any!

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BEWARE: 7 Things Which You Should Never Do For A Girl

In as much as falling in love is a beautiful thing for those who made it to the other end, there are some certain things a guy should never do for a girl otherwise you will lose your self respect before her.

1. Helping her wash clothes

2. Helping her write her exams

3. Allowing her slap you playfully

4. Giving her liberty to flirt with other guys when you are dating her

5. Helping her carry her handbag

6. Condoning her shouting on you

7. Feel free to add yours

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OMG See What Wizkid did To Ini Edo On Stage in Mali where she performed to a crowded stadium . She also shared an interesting photo of a fan who clutched onto her leg Click Here To See The Shocking photo And Download The VIDEO.

 

These are of photos of Nollywood diva ini edo and Toke Makinwa at the event.ini edo showed off her curve while Toke flaunted major cleavage.

 

 

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10 Ways To Avoid Heart-Break In Relationships

Seperation or Heart break is one of the price of fruitless relationship. In order to avoid truma attached to it, earlyvibes.com will share with you 10 ways to avoid heart-break in relationships below:

1. Not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season only few are for a life time. If it doesn’t work out don’t kill yourself because it was for something. Discover the purpose and
move on.
2. Don’t give a man or a woman the totality of your heart before giving the totality of your heart to God. Love that person but put God first.
3. Don’t get carried away with beauty or money, if that person’s inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either.

4. Love is never enough, understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important.
5. When the negative signs are more than the positive signs. It is better to
withdraw your heart before it gets ‘broken’.
6. Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship.
7. Don’t demand trust; earn it, build it or show it.
8. Never you compare him or her to someone else.
9. Your relationship should not only be marriage driven but care, love and concern driven.
10. Don’t marry him or her because you saw him or her in church. Many are in church but not in touch with God. It is not WHERE you meet, but WHO you meet that counts.

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The 5 Sweet Reasons Why You Should Marry A Nurse

In this day and age, when most eligible bachelors takes a lady’s job into cognizance before deciding whether to marry her, Most guys think nurses are too occupied with their job, hence, they won’t spend quality with the family.
But here are 5 Sweet Advantages Of Marrying A Nurse

1. Nurses Understand The Human Body: When it comes to the human body, no one understands it better than a nurse who has mastered the art. Your  life will be on the first class level. Instead of a banker that will be calculating accounts in her head. A nurse knows where and how to give you the soothing relief.

2. Nurses Are Neat : Nurses are used to wearing white, which must always be kept clean. So, her undies and wears are always neat. Unlike the average market woman that will wear from morning going to market, till evening when she’ll return with all the sweating.

3. Financial Security : They are well paid these days, and will supplement your income as the husband. Very important in marriage. A nursing officer II in the federal service is on N120,000 monthly. Instead of giving out money for pad, soap dish, closeup, eye pencil, she takes care of it. A nurse don’t really fully on the husband for money.

4. Enough Time: For every 1 week of night duty, they take the next 1 week off..enough time to tend to the kids , while you continue hustling for your daily bread. And when she’s pregnant ? You should be familiar with the rules. 6 months maternity leave. Enjoyment. Again, unlike bankers, Monday to Saturday, 7am till 7pm.

5. Healthcare : Whenever you or the kids fall sick, you won’t get all worried and tensed up because you know you are in safe hands. You’ll get all the drugs, injections, massages and all the tender love & care you need.
Do you agree with the above reasons ?
You can also add yous below!

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5 Professions That Makes It Difficult For Ladies To Get A Husband

A lady’s wedding day is one of the happiest day of her life, and every lady looks forward to this wonderful moment. But there are some professions which makes it extremely difficult for a lady to get her life partner. This is due to our societal belief, prejudice, ethics, and stereotypical belief.

Here’s a list of 5 professions that makes it difficult for a lady to get a husband;
1. Strippers 
This is a profession ladies do at expensive lounges and bars where they display almost all the glory of their body for viewers discretion to enjoy. They say don’t judge a book by its cover but opposite is the case when men spot ladies in these areas.
However most guys will not consider these category of ladies for serious relationship let alone marriage.
2. Military and Paramilitary Force
As a single lady if you join a paramilitary or military force, the chances to getting a husband may be slim, because guys will assume such ladies will possess arrogant behaviour and won’t be submissive.
3. Acting/Modelling 
Most actresses live exorbitant lifestyles that can chase guys away. Men often bash female actress and models because they believe that they always offer their body to producers in a bid to get famous and they probably don’t have time for the family as they travel to different locations every now and then shooting movies and showing off.
4. Fitness Trainers And Weight Lifters 
Most men consider female weight lifters and fitness trainers a total turn off, since ladies who engage in such activities become more muscular and some likely lose their ‘s*xiness’ along the line. Every man loves the curvy shape of his woman, not the muscular built. Well, no man wants to get married to a lady who will turn him to a punching bag anytime things goes wrong.
5. Lawyers
Most men have this belief that female lawyers won’t make good wives. They say that they won’t be submissive in the house and would always want to prove that they are right just like they do in court. Also some men get scared of approaching a lady who is a lawyer as they feel she would be arrogant and might embarrass them.
I know for a fact that most female lawyers often aspire to get married or at least be in a very serious relationship before they are called to the bar because after they are called, the ‘market’ or demand for them diminishes rapidly.
Men, would you pick any lady with the listed professions for a wife ?

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Guys : See 4 Places You Must Never Touch in a Lady’s B0dy!

So here’s my list on the places a man should never touch on a woman’s body along with the worst times to do it. Because I’m not saying these places should never be touched, I’m saying they shouldn’t be touched in certain scenarios. Men, you need to be astute. I know, it’s hard sometimes. But here’s
1. The Tip when other things are going on with our body. Avoid Tip pinching when we’re buubsfeeding or about to have our periods. It just hurts … in the bad way.
2. The stomach after a large meal. We really want to have a flat tummy, but it’s nearly impossible most times, particularly after we just ate a cheeseburger with sweet potato French fries and had a beer. Or during a premenstrual bloat. Or when we eat anything with beans.
3. The womanliness when it needs a bath. If you start going downtown and she pulls you back up, this is your red flag that she’s not feeling so fresh. Respect it because your attempt will be futile. She probably won’t enjoy it while worrying about her lady odor anyway.
4. Anywhere after we have been sweating … a lot … and we aren’t drunk. I’d say about 99 percent of the time, most women don’t like a man to get all physical after we’ve gotten all physical at the gym. This is also true for when we have been outside heating up during those sweltering summer months. But I’ve found that if you add alcohol, this hang up of being touched when sweaty is gone. Same goes for all the others, too

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Men Please dont Marry These 10 Types of Women

1. The Chatterbox
This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.

2. The Desperate Chick
This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal,watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless
guy on the corner.

3. The Overly-Critical Woman
Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.
4. The Bimbo
This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad. The majority of girls you see on the streets everyday fall into this category,

5. The High Maintenance Chick
If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times. She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother.

6. The Clingy Girl
This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She’ll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior. This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.

7. The Baby’s Mama
This woman has a great physique, great personality and her toes are pretty too! There’s only one problem–she’s got a pretty large amount of children with assorted “baby-daddy’s”, and when women like this get desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be “daddy.” This woman got knocked up by somebody that she was supposedly in love with, and not only is she a bad judge of character, she’s GROSSLY irresponsible. The same guys that are “jerks” now are the same guys she once thought the world of and had unprotected s ex with.

8. The Gold Digger
The Gold-Digger will compliment you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live and so on. Like the high maintenance woman, the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t take her shopping anymore. These types of women will just sU-Ck your wallet dry and leave you emasculated. Fortunately,you can usually see this type coming from a mile away. She wants to write out the names of all her designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook.

9. The Club Girl
Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for. The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, man-hood and Harry on the street. A woman like this may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car. Or waking up hungover, in some guy’s bed in the morning.

10. The Feminist
This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”. You don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that you do willalways be negative to her.
Ladies, your take on this article?

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Sleep With Me Or I Will Fire You – His Female Boss Tells Him

I am messed up right now and I need your advice. I work in a company where I report directly to a lady.
My woe started when I went to her office one day to pick up a file. As I entered her office, my phone rang so I decided to take the call.
The call was a bit long so she decided to get the file for me from one of the file cabinets.
As she bent for the bottom drawer her skirt tore terribly exposing her panties.
The phone almost dropped from my hand. I tried to hurry out of the office but she called me back to help her go across the street to stitch it.
I was almost frozen. Ever since then she has been disturbing me to sleep with her.
She said she gave me the job because she love me. I just got married and don’t want to cheat.
Yesterday, she called me and and dropped the bombshell ” if you don’t sleep with me I will fire you”.
What do I do? I don’t want to lose that job. I am considering reporting her to my general manager but I am afraid of the consequence. Someone send this to me

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Reasons Why Some Guys Are Afraid Of Dating Beautiful Women

Lots of beautiful women around but we ain’t chasing just yet. here is why.
1.We Become Possessive And Jealous
We may not like to admit it, but there’s always jealousy lurking somewhere when dating a gorgeous woman. Friends of friends won’t be welcomed home, her going out with her male friends for drinks might seem annoying and that new dress every week for work might raise eyebrows. We know it, we do it!
2.Worry About Other Guys Hitting On Her

We surely won’t question her, but we can’t stop thinking about questioning her. What if every guy she meets wants her number and time?There will be times when guys will want to come up with excuses to talk to her and you wouldn’t be able to do anything but worry.
3. You Go Unnoticed In Her Presence
It’s a good thing as well as a bad thing. If you have a nonpareil beauty standing right next to you, it’s quite obvious people might not notice you. You might always fade into the background. If you overhear people saying things like “What’s she doing with HIM?” you know it’s time for you to get away from that place.

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12 key points to Win a Girl's Heart!!!

1. Learn how to appreciates her.

2. Be a good friend at first not a lover.

3. Sing for her even if ur voice is bad.

4. Make her laugh always.

5. Don't brag about yourself.

6. Praise her even if she's ugly.

7. Play a sweet song for her E.g Celine dion, Westlife, Joe Thomas etc.

8. Always dress corporate, don't sag.

9. Be fluent with your english.

10. Buy her simple gift like Teddy bears, perfumes etc.

11. Send her greeting cards often.

12. And at last, let her know you care about her

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8 Things Guys Secretly Love But Won’t Tell You

Whether a guy is just starting to date a woman or is in a committed relationship with her, there are small things that she may do without thinking twice that guys secretly love. While there are many, here are eight to start.


1) Laying your head on his chest. When laying on the couch watching TV or laying in bed after a long day, it’s one of the best feelings when a woman lays her head down on your chest and puts her arm over you. As men, we enjoy feeling as though we are being protective, and this signifies that she feels safe in our arms.

2) When you text him first. There is a lot of pressure on guys to always initiate conversation. Sometimes he may not know if he’s being too pushy or texting too much — he might overthink it and not text you at all, which could leave you wondering. Guys like to feel affection too, and if he’s really into you, he will be thinking about you. Sending him a quick text will brighten his day and spark a good conversation.

3) When you tell him you appreciate him. Some people are more affectionate than others, and there’s nothing wrong with however you are. Just remember, if a man puts in a lot of effort into your relationship (as he should), he will never complain about hearing how much you appreciate him. While he should be able to read your feelings from your actions, some guys need a more direct approach. It will make him feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

4) Play with his hair while he’s driving. I didn’t realize how great this one was until my girlfriend randomly did it one day. If you’re riding shotgun, reach over and lightly scratch the back of his head for awhile. Guaranteed to make him smile. (Don’t distract him too much though, he’s driving!)

5) Brag about him on Facebook. Some girls go overboard with this. Way overboard. But, if your guy does something nice for you, it never hurts to talk about it or snap a photo of the impromptu dinner he had arranged when you got home from work. It will show him that you appreciate him and are willing to share your appreciation and love for him with the world.

6) Really listen. Women know better than anyone that really listening isn’t just a passive activity. It’s actually an action and it takes effort. Sometimes a guy has something important going on in his life, is working towards a goal, or is just stressed out about work. When you really sit down, keep his eye contact and become genuinely engaged in a conversation about something important to him, it will let him know you care (even if he already does).

7) Text him when you’re out with your friends. I’ve heard some really bad stories about guys who are insanely jealous or don’t “let” their girlfriend go out with friends, and especially with other guys. While I understand the apprehension, a man should be secure enough in his relationship (and trust his girlfriend enough) to not worry every second she is out without him. If you have a man who is mature enough to tell you to go have a good time, text him every now and then during the course of the night just saying hello. It will make him smile and let him know that you’re still thinking about him when you’re out.


 8) Be affectionate. You don’t have to jump on him in public, but small things like taking his hand while you’re walking, hugging him in line at the grocery store, or hooking your arm into his as you walk into a party, will make him feel close to you and that you’re proud to be with him. The little things go a long way

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OMG See What This Girl did To Wizkid On Stage in Mali where he performed to a crowded stadium . he also shared an interesting photo of a fan who clutched onto his leg Click Here To See The Shocking photo And Download The VIDEO.

Wizkid had a concert in Mali where he performed to a crowded stadium. Thanking Mali for the crazy experience, in Mali where he performed to a crowded stadium he also shared an interesting photo of a fan who clutched onto his leg.

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