I just don’t know why many of us indulge in these
irritating behaviors
1. Asking a guy you just met for recharge card
This is very annoying. It makes you look cheap. A
guy met you in the afternoon, gave you a call in the
evening and you are already asking
him to send you a recharge card. Trust me, that guy
can never respect you. He might eventually send you
the recharge card, but the only thing on his mind
would be to sleep with you once or twice and get rid
of you.
2. Judging a guy by his looks
I believe guys should be the ones that should be hell
bent on beauty and physical appearance. Dont fall
for a guy chiefly because he looks good physically.
You need to access his acumen, sense of judgment,
level-headedness, dreams etc. What makes a good guy
is by far more than just looks.
3. Having s*x with a guy the day you met him
This is uncalled for. You automatically lose some
respect if you allow this guy to get down with you the
first day you met him. Little kisses here and there
and some cuddling would do, if you are tempted, let
him feel your bosoms just to get yourself wet. The
longer you make a guy wait, the more he will
appreciate you and value your body. No one values
what he gets easily.
4. Pouting of lips to take a selfie
Do we have to do this? Its so disgusting. Okay fine, I
am guilty of this too and am going to stop. Every
picture of a girl on facebook shows her pouting her
lips to look pretty. This doesn’t make us look prettier;
it only make us look childish. I didnt realise it makes
me look like a kid until my boyfriend told me 5 days
ago.
5. Manipulating a guy to over spend for you on a
date.
Because he looks rich and came to the eatery in a car
makes you feel you can drain his pocket abi. This
instantaneously tells the guy that you are a hungry
girl and from a very poor background. Cant you just
order for just one ice cream or a soft drink and be
fine with this cool dude. Even if you do not like him,
do not do this. Trust me, the guy will never call you
again and if he does he only wants to get laid just
once. The worst is taking your friend along so that
you can both finish him.
6. Forcing yourself on a guy that doesn’t give a
damn about you
If a guy likes you, he will show it. Dont you ever
force yourself on a guy. You can indicate some green
lights but don’t force yourself on him. If you do he
will treat you like poo. I have read some post here
on Nairaland telling girls how to woo a guy. Dont try
it. There are a million subtle ways to make him see
that you like him than forcing yourself on him and
asking him out outrightly.
7. Keeping too many boyfriends
Cant we just be cool with one guy we love? 8
boyfriends equals to 8 Joysticks. Jesus Christ! How
many guys are combing you?
8. Excessive Make Up
Excessive make up make us look like masquerades,
ojuju calabar like Tiwa Savage. Trust me, guys dont
like girls with excessive make-ups. I have heard guys
say it more than a thousand times how much they
hate excessive make up on ladies. Look natural and if
you must apply make ups, make it very lite.
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