Wednesday, 11 November 2015

5 Signs Your Girlfriend Is Using You Bro!!!

You are dating her, but is she actually into you? Save yourself hurt feelings with these 5 not so hard miss warning signs..
1..Check if choosing a place to go is all about her.. That is, maybe she will only do things she wants to do. Alternatively, maybe she’ll call only when something is going on in town, such as a big concert or a new club opening, that she wants you to pay for. *.She may also be hesitant to hang out when you suggest something, but eager when she wants to go somewhere..
2.. She never pays for food.. Notice that every time you go out to dinner or order takeaway, you’re left holding the bill? Sure chivalry is nice and will be paid back in certain ways, but there needs to be some balance. If you find that every time a meal comes to an end your girlfriend has excused herself for the bathroom as soon as the mints have arrived, there’s a good chance she’s using you.
3..Never asks you to meet her friends or family… If you have been together for a while and you’ve still not had the opportunity to meet her family nor have you spent much time with her friends, then there’s a good chance she’s not really seeing you as someone who will play an important role in her future plans. If a girl is genuinely interested in you,chances are she’ll want to show you off to everyone close to her right from the outside. If this doesn’t happen, it might be time to have a word with yourself.
4..She wants her space… a lot! Are you dating a girl who clings to you for a few days, and then completely ignores you for the next few days? While playing hard to get may excite a guy, this is pushing the game too far. Every time she ignores you or pushes you away, you may find yourself falling more madly in love with her. On the other hand, she’s probably interested in a few other guys or sleeping with them, just to work out her options. When a girl claims to love a guy, and yet avoids the guy completely for a few days every now and then, there’s a good chance there’s another guy in her life.
5…She uses a version of the phrase, “I can’t be with you right now.”… Tread carefully, gents; she knows exactly what she’s doing and knows she can easily get away with it if you don’t stand up for yourself. She’s keeping you on her hook like a trout until she (if ever) decides to reel you in. The phrase “right now” implies that, even though she’s currently nailing someone else or isn’t in a good place in her life, she may decide later that you’re finally worthy of her devotion. If you hear this phrase, swim for safer waters, young tuna. She’s manipulating you to keep you around to satisfy her need for attention; meanwhile, she’s free to do whatever (or whoever) she wants. If you’re expecting her to dump her boyfriend for you, don’t. Even if she does, she proves that she may be open to doing it again, but this time to you.

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